Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Kisses.

So, yesterday, legal dad showed up and mom didn't. I am very disappointed in mom.

Anyway, I saw legal dad kiss Lizzy on the face and I have seen him kiss her tons of times on the mouth. After the visit the social worker, therapist, and I were sitting around talking. Lizzy climbed up in my lap and tried to kiss me on the mouth and I put my hand in front of her. I was horrified to do this, but until I get her cleaned up I do not let her kiss me on the mouth after seeing him. He is dirty, so dirty that the social worker told me that she had check Lizzy's diaper to see if she pooped because dad smelled so bad she thought Lizzy might have pooped in her diaper. She hadn't.

He is a drug addict.

He has discolored spots on his lips...I don't know what he has.

Anyway, immediately after I told Lizzy not to kiss me I turned to the social worker and therapist and said, "I am sorry, but he is filthy and I don't know what disease he has and I am pregnant."

Neither knew I was pregnant yet.

What a fun new way to announce it to people :/

7 comments:

Bobbie said...

wow. DISCOLORED spots on his LIPS?!!! that is crazy.... and creepy... and gross....

Tammy (aka. "Mimi") said...

Just what you need! To catch HERPES from the oogy legal dad... Fun times in Foster/Adopt Land!

Mama P said...

Greeeaaaat. Ugh.

Endless Love ~ Amazing Grace said...

Quick thinking on your part and I don't blame you!

StarfishMom said...

I would have said something like "um, SURPRISE!!!" :) Never a dull moment in the wonderful world of foster care!!!!

heather said...

Gross. Sorry your reveal was less than spectacular.

Debbie said...

Oh my goodness! The fun never ends.