Have you ever heard that song? Anyway.
The last two days have sucked.
I made the mistake of letting Lizzy's bio mom say hi to her on the phone which then caused her to be a crying mess for the whole rest of the day and totally not herself for the day after that.
They talked for like 20 seconds.
I didn't think it would do that. Lizzy has been very clingy for a while now. She doesn't like when my husband goes to work, she wants all of us to be together all the time. I hope this is actually a healthy thing or leading to a healthy attachment to us, but it doesn't come across as warm as fuzzy. It comes across as a tantrum-ing mess usually.
I think talking to her mom triggers her feelings of loss and, in a way, I think there might be some fear there of loosing us as well.
Regardless, I won't be making that mistake again.