No, this situation with mom has not changed our minds about not adopting Lizzy. I keep hoping that something will change and we will feel that it is the right thing. As it stands there is nothing that has changed our minds, actually it only confirms our decision.
Even though we went around and told everyone that we weren't interested we easily could tell them we changed our minds and no one would have a problem with it. It won't really matter until she is truly legally free for adoption anyway.