tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post735917176641648722..comments2023-11-02T06:27:00.113-07:00Comments on Mama Foster: Boring.MamaFosterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16347829013467691443noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-88689248720082284352015-08-17T13:00:33.417-07:002015-08-17T13:00:33.417-07:00My daughter-in-law has had six children and has on...My daughter-in-law has had six children and has only been able to raise one, which she forgets that it is because I had them live with me during my grandson's first year just so I could keep an eye on him and report anything wrong (which I did). Anyway, her oldest three are well into their late 20s and she is so HURT that they don't keep in touch with her via Facebook or other means. She talks about the possible "grandchildren" they might give her and how she wants so badly to be in contact with them. The thing is, this woman gave away her parental rights because she was pregnant with the fourth child and then gave away parental rights (to me) of the fourth and fifth child because she was pregnant with #6. (Each child became more unhealthy at birth and I scared her with awful pics of what #7 might be like - nasty of me I know. Then after a couple of years, I drove her to the hospital, waited while her tubes were tied and drove her home again.) She doesn't get it why her kids aren't just so in love with her. sigh. My two are the only ones who do keep in contact, but only to see their little brother. Pam H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06705850646784709406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-53268378313333894702011-10-05T12:29:28.469-07:002011-10-05T12:29:28.469-07:00OMG I know EXACTLY how you feel. I'm going t...OMG I know EXACTLY how you feel. I'm going to privately adopting a boy due on Christmas and right now both the mom and dad (not together right now) are acting like its going to be more like a divorce custody than actual adoption. the dad thinks he can have say on the kid's name and schooling options, the mom thinks she can play mommy when she wants, both of course think we'll pay for every and anything.<br /><br />Luckily the foster son we have has already TPRed so I dont have to worry about his bio parents.Vickyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10855274514433419243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-69462087656689645222011-10-04T18:26:40.693-07:002011-10-04T18:26:40.693-07:00Good for you.Good for you.Endless Foster Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06695946500963922878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-20203030614219089232011-10-04T18:26:39.063-07:002011-10-04T18:26:39.063-07:00Good for you.Good for you.Endless Foster Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06695946500963922878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-5474051063944798862011-10-04T16:08:47.368-07:002011-10-04T16:08:47.368-07:00actually, she gave someone permanent guardianship ...actually, she gave someone permanent guardianship over him. no termination. that is probably why though...same theory.MamaFosterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16347829013467691443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-25021732538085774802011-10-04T09:44:48.760-07:002011-10-04T09:44:48.760-07:00I am sure she does live in denial just to get thro...I am sure she does live in denial just to get through the hard stuff. - Marco and Antonio's mom signed off her parental rights giving me the consent to adopt. Then they didn't have to go into trial to TPR. The state of MN (and prob most states) encourage parents to do that instead of having the formal charges pressed on them for a TPR. I am guessing she signed off her rights to her son's adopted parents previously otherwise Lizzy's case wouldn't be taking so long before they filed a TPR.the johnson crewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00776474353375499103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-76042176099724579582011-10-04T07:40:57.899-07:002011-10-04T07:40:57.899-07:00Good girl ... someone has to be the adult.Good girl ... someone has to be the adult.spng7https://www.blogger.com/profile/03716020820832371396noreply@blogger.com