tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post2788245193043544206..comments2023-11-02T06:27:00.113-07:00Comments on Mama Foster: Dear Lizzy,MamaFosterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16347829013467691443noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-80693133320785324572011-10-06T18:41:42.574-07:002011-10-06T18:41:42.574-07:00Love this. Thanks for sharing.Love this. Thanks for sharing.Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12653443720538298992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-88528775431448968682011-10-06T17:48:13.968-07:002011-10-06T17:48:13.968-07:00I could've written this last summer about eith...I could've written this last summer about either of the twins. Love to hear you be honest about your exhaustion, and that your hubby is helping you through this.Estherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13238506261097064360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-14630494284358106042011-10-06T11:12:37.897-07:002011-10-06T11:12:37.897-07:00I was going to bring up the visit too. I had littl...I was going to bring up the visit too. I had little ones that had bad behaviors after visits. Your husband is a wise man. That is what team work is all about. You can have a bad day and he is there to put it together and then when he has a bad day you can help put it together. God has her were he knows she needs to be right now. Love never fails. Lifting your family up.Tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08553976812510001971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-66546360230896601362011-10-06T09:39:04.152-07:002011-10-06T09:39:04.152-07:00Sweet Lizzy. I often comment that parenting my dau...Sweet Lizzy. I often comment that parenting my daughter is both a joy and a challenge. I'm guessing that fits parenting Lizzy as well. <br /><br />What a great daddy she has pouring the love on her. So interesting to think about her time with you as the hardest of her life, but he is right. Praying that next hearing is a productive one for Lizzy's sake.Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15484607337052505871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-89642402430588273992011-10-06T09:12:19.128-07:002011-10-06T09:12:19.128-07:00Sounds like you've got a great Mr. in your hou...Sounds like you've got a great Mr. in your house!<br /><br />I also second what Carol said for sure. Those visits wreck havoc!!Cherub Mammahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07220602185537450139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-84063691160024284822011-10-06T09:01:39.097-07:002011-10-06T09:01:39.097-07:00thank you carol, it is always nice to hear from pe...thank you carol, it is always nice to hear from people who are now on the OTHER side of this which I have yet to experience.<br /><br />and yes, the visit was monday and it can always be counted on to make her crazy. :/MamaFosterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16347829013467691443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43056709404910466.post-59783967438718592172011-10-06T08:29:46.372-07:002011-10-06T08:29:46.372-07:00I hear you! Now for just a bit of grandmotherly in...I hear you! Now for just a bit of grandmotherly insight - Lizzy had a visit to which the not loved dad showed up for right? (I almost said hated, but the much loved little girl probably doesn't know the meaning of that word). Visits wreck havoc on these little lives. Visits are not a safe calmingly loving environment to these hurting little ones. They cause damage in these kinds of situations. I personally think that you will find that when these visits stop your little Lizzy and her day in day out mama will be different people. Life will take on a new calmer feeling.<br /><br />Having said those things which I fully believe, there are cases where these damaging visits can have lifelong effects and may require a different approach to parenting, different but very rewarding. <br /><br />I am thankful for little Lizzy that you have been along side her during this very troubling time in her life. I hope you know that you were chosen to be Lizzy's mommy every bit as much as Lizzy was chosen to live a life other than the one she was born into.<br /><br />Thank you for what you have done for this special little girl.Carolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12314490302788189266noreply@blogger.com